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[Mini Erotica] Pillow talkShe whispered into my ear and started setting a scene of sensual mystery. It sparked surprise, and I began to wonder — does she know that…Jan 20Jan 20
51 Ways to Be KinkyFor my 51st birthday, I asked my discussion group to brainstorm 51 ways to be kinky — one for every year I’ve been on the planet. Aside…Dec 9, 2024Dec 9, 2024
Kids Will Be Kids But We Can Do BetterHow to support your neurotypical teen in friendships with neurodivergent peers.Dec 9, 2024Dec 9, 2024
The Importance of Queer Kink VisibilityWhen someone says “queer kink” to you, what images jump into your head? And be honest about it.Nov 19, 2024Nov 19, 2024
The Kink Community at a Crossroads: Consent, Responsibility, and ChangeThe Gisèle Pelicot case has sent shockwaves through our world. And while most of us still struggle to fathom the scale and involvement in…Oct 29, 2024Oct 29, 2024
[Poem] Out Here, Being QueerA coming out poem, written for a fundraising event for Mind OutMar 22, 2024Mar 22, 2024